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If you’re here, you probably have the same problem as me: you have those types of people on your social networks who turn any post, story or comment into an epic drama. Yes, I am talking about bitter people who seem to live exclusively to criticize you, as if your life and your publications were an exam that you will never pass.
The dog in the creek: the catastrophe that never happened
Imagine the scene: I upload a video of my happy dogs playing in a stream. For me, it’s a moment of pure joy, something beautiful to share with whoever wants to see it. But there they are, ready to ruin it:
- “Don’t you realize that you can drown?”
- “This is reckless.”
Of course, it doesn’t matter that I’m nearby, watching, and that behind the dog there’s a safe beach where something could happen even if I didn’t want to. Ah, no! They have already obtained the diploma of “expert@s in tragedies” and they judge you as if you were recording the Titanic sinking live.
Children, dogs and the social apocalypse
Another day, I upload a video where a child plays with a dog. Guess what? For me it’s something cute, innocent, full of tenderness. But no, he sees it as a global threat:
- “That should not be allowed.”
- “You’re invading the dog’s space.”
- “There could be an accident.”
Really? Can’t you imagine that I know the dog, the child and the context? Of course there could be an accident, but if we lived with that fear, we wouldn’t even go out to buy bread. According to him, everything you do is wrong because it could go wrong.
The queen of the call effect
She had a follower (now blocked, thank God) who was a pro at attracting more people like her. If he said something, no matter how minimal, others would comment in the same tone. And that turned into a toxic forum where it seemed like they were solving the world’s problems… in my post. It was surreal. Once, this same person was outraged by a story that wasn’t even mine. I shared it because I thought it was funny, and his reaction was:
- “I’m not even fucking funny!”
And then he unfollowed me. My reaction? laugh at me I didn’t know her, I didn’t even know who she was, and honestly, I didn’t care. But there I realized something important: these people take to the networks as if it were a personal fight, while I just want to share simple and fun things.
The great cleaning of followers
This led me to make a decision: delete thousands of followers who did not contribute anything. 8,000, to be exact. Yes, 8,000 accounts that Meta confirmed to me were ghosts or toxic. It was liberating. Because, in the end, I don’t care about numbers or likes; what I want is to surround myself with good vibes.
The case of the “misleading” offer
Another moment worth mentioning was YESTERDAY, when I published a very clear offer for THIS WEEKEND: 25 euros per night, minimum two nights and two people. Easy, right? Well, no. Read one and write to me:
- “It’s misleading advertising.”
- “Why?”
- “Because I want a night and he doesn’t leave me.”
- “The offer lasts for two nights, not one.”
- And does breakfast come in?
- No, it’s just accommodation…..
- “This is bullshit and a scam…”
That’s the end of the conversation. I don’t know if people read, don’t understand, or simply like to complicate life. But in this case, it became clear to me that you can’t reason with someone who already comes with the predisposition to hate you.
Life is free, scroll too
Something I will never understand is why these people follow someone if they don’t like what they do. If I see something that bothers me or doesn’t contribute to me, I simply ignore it. Why don’t they do the same? It’s as if they were emotional masochists, looking for things to get angry about.
I, for my part, have neither time nor energy to enter into absurd debates. If you don’t like something, don’t follow me, don’t read me, don’t look at me. It’s free! But, for some reason, they insist on staying there, as if it were their divine mission to criticize everything.
Blocking: the divine tool
And here we reach the real power: the blockade. Blocking is like cleaning the house; you get rid of the accumulated dirt and you are left with a cleaner, quieter space. Can you imagine if we could block toxic people in real life? Noisy neighbors, toxic co-workers, annoying strangers… all gone with a simple click.
Conclusion: live and let live
Life is already complicated enough to carry the negativity of bitter people. I choose to stay with people who bring something positive, who know how to enjoy a dog in the water or a happy child playing. To the others, I wish you luck and that you find something that makes you smile. But if they don’t, it’s not my problem either.
In the end, networks are a reflection of life: you can choose what affects you and what doesn’t. And I choose not to let anyone embitter me. If you don’t like what I do, what I think or what I share, remember: “The scroll is free, cariño” .
From MasTorrencito we wish you a good day and may your dogs accompany you!!!!
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